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Missing Bruce

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I know no one can answer that. Maybe I just need to type it all out. I'll never have answers. I'll always miss my Bruce. We adopted Bruce (an English Mastiff) when he was 6 months old, from a family breeder (not a mill, just non papered). He was the smallest puppy of litter of 13 and bottle fed. He was almost 6 years old & 190 pounds. We left Friday around 4:20, after taking him outside for a potty break. He was active, spunky, drank water. No signs of anything wrong. We got home just after 10 pm and he was just...dead. :( By his condition we estimate he died between 4:30 and 7pm. He was seemingly healthy. Eating well, going potty fine, normal bowel movements. Up to date on all vaccinations. No signs of bloat. His muzzle had gotten really gray in the past 2 years. He appeared to have laid down on his side and fallen asleep. We are so incredibly heartbroken. He was such a gentle giant. He protected me and our kids more than once. So incredibly amazing -- truly a best friend. His sister (also an EM) is doing well. She's his niece biologically. She's obviously sad, but we're showering her with affection and love.
 

AKBull

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Staff member
First, I am truelly sorry for your loss...

Some things that could do this could be an undiagnosed heart issues or a massive seizure, or bloat. The bloat symptoms could have shown up after you left him, and then, well, yeah.

Again, sorry for your loss. :(
 

musicdeb

Well-Known Member
I'm so sorry and I cannot offer a reason for his passing. Hopefully he passed away while he was sleeping.
 

Mooshi's Mummy

Well-Known Member
Im so sorry for your loss and cant imagine the pain you must be feeling. I wonder if it was just his time? Yes there could have been underlying issues and you will only find out with an autopsy but sometimes pets and people just die, no rhyme and no reason, they just pass.
 

looby73

Well-Known Member
So sorry for such a sad loss. At least try and draw a little comfort that he wasn't ill and in pain for a long period and had a happy life with you.
 

Missing Bruce

New Member
Thanks everyone. Our hearts are still just aching. He was such an incredible guy. We're focusing our energy on spoiling the heck out of his little sister (Daisy, 5yo brindle EM) and she's comforting us as well. And yes, I am grateful that he wasn't sick or ill or hurting for a period of time. It was just so sudden and unexpected. It's also the first time we've lost a dog at home...it's always been controlled, in the vet's office...I just can't stop recalling the ache in my husband's voice when he said "Bruce is lying there and won't get up and I think he's dead." And I can't stop recalling seeing him lying there, his body void of life. I'll always wonder if we had stayed home would this not have happened? It was my fault we were gone that evening. I feel like I was so selfish, since we were gone because of me (I had an event I agreed to do). We almost never go out anywhere. I know all those things are stupid for me to mull over. The why's and the how's and what-if's, but still... Then I wonder of he waited for us to leave. Did he chose that evening to die, knowing the kids weren't going to be home? Did he chose then to spare them the pain of seeing their parents in agony (it was pretty bad here with how we carried on). We're trying to focus on the good memories he left us with. Shortly after we adopted him (he was 80 pounds, 6 mo old) our baby was sitting in the living room on the floor with half a grilled cheese sandwich in his little fist. He was less than a year old. I was on the couch watching him. Bruce walked up and all of a sudden my son's arm was elbow deep in Bruce mouth. He and Bruce just kinda looked at each other. I wasn't worried. I never for a moment thought my son was in danger. His arm slid out of Bruce's mouth, minus the sandwich half. Mastiff had expertly and gently separated sandwich from baby hand. The baby was unharmed in anyway, just a bit slobbered on, but when he looked down and saw that his grilled cheese was gone he started just sobbing. Not long after, our middle son (who was maybe 3?) walked into the backyard looking for his dad (who was in the front yard). Bruce and our corgi were out on the back deck. The corgi attacked our son, leaving a wound on his finger. Bruce got between the two and saved our son from anymore damage. So many camping trips. Driving across the country and back. Zooming thru the yard. Begging for belly rubs. So many memories...
 

Sadies Mom

Well-Known Member
Welcome! I am so sorry for your loss. I can't say I know how you feel, but remember.......It is not your fault. The what-if will only make you go crazy. Bruce seemed to be a true gentle giant. Please share the memories of Bruce(if you want, and pictures are always welcome).
RIP, Bruce:pray::(
 

jersey girl

Well-Known Member
I am so sorry you and your family are going through this. It's never easy and it will take time for your heart to heal. Give yourself time to grieve...I hope those wonderful memories give you some comfort.