tmricciuto
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This is just heartbreaking. I'm surprised also that they wouldn't do payment plans or something. All of the vets we've been to offer some type of installment agreement.
Lol, that's obvious.I think even if you get the dog back, you're still on the hook for the surgery and treatment cost.
The person who stepped up was kind, but I can't imagine that this unethical behavior by the vet was in any way within the bounds of his medical covenant (like human doctors, they have malpractice insurance and a set of regulations and ethics that must be followed).Please excuse me for being an emotional, sappy mess but I hope this sad story about a race against time helps another dog owner in the future. I have been on this forum for many months getting great advice on my boerboel puppy pax, who has struggled with entropion, food allergies, bacterial infections and demodex. After 22 trips to the vet, dermatologist and animal hospital Pax was doing great. At 7 months old he weighed 120lbs, he was free of demodex, skin was completed healed from infection and was doing great on a salmon based diet. May was our best month ever. We went hiking, took trips to the beach and spent every night together taking walks around town and visiting all of our neighborhood puppy friends. I left for work Saturday morning, but before my shift was over I got a phone call from my husband saying that Pax was throwing up and the his regular vet was closed. I immediately began making plans to leave work while my husband took Pax to a vet that was open. this is where a our race against time began.
At 1:30 pm Pax had X-rays done which clearly revealed that Pax had a large peice of corn on the cob lodged inhis small intestine. The vet explained that this was serious and Pax needed to go to the ER. The ER gave Pax IV fluids and medication to hydrate him and to subside the vomiting. The vet said there was a small chance that he could pass the corn natural with hydration, but if not he would need major surgery. It was almost midnight and Pax still was not passing the corn naturally. We stayed up all night trying to get the funds for surgery. We only had 2,000.00 left in our emergency funds. We had all of our money tied up in escrow to buy a house because my husbands job needs us to relocate out of state this month. Needless to say, this couldn't of happened at a worse time. We even tried to increase our credit limit on our credit cards but we were unable to come up with enough money for surgery, which was thousands of dollars more than what we had availible. It took all night just to come up with enough money to cover Pax's X-rays and overnight stay at the ER. In a last attempt I reached out to brow dog foundation and helping hands but this was happening over the weekend and we were running out of time. By 9am the next morning Pax was going downhill fast. I cried so hard that my eyes burned and I could hardly breath. Just when I thought it was all over for Pax, a doctor at the ER called me with an unconventional option.
It was around 12:00 when the doctor said in a empathetic voice,"there is someone in house that is willing to pay for all of Pax's surgery cost as well as all ongoing medical care to keep him alive." My heart jumped with joy and I felt an overwhelming sense of relief. But then the doctor said, "the only condition is that this staff member would then become Pax's new mommy." I spent the rest of the day on the floor of the ER holding Pax's head in my lap and bawled like a baby in front of a room of strangers. At 5pm pax began throwing up feces and stopped licking my hands, I knew it was time. At 5:30 I signed the papers that allowed pax to get the medical help that he needed. At 5:45 I kissed him goodbye and watched him struggle to walk away. Our time was up.
I am forever grateful to the person who took on this responsibility and gave Pax a chance to live when I could not. However, it's breaking my heart to know that I will never find out if he made it or not. One of the conditions to this unconventional option was that I am not allowed to contact the ER or the vet that helped Pax. All that I ask is that if this mysterious saint ever reads this post please give me a sign that he is ok. And most importantly I want to thank you for trying to save my best friend's life. We will never forget you Paxi boy.even though our time together was short, you now have the chance to run down the beach for years to come.
Here is a picture of my final hour with Pax
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I would also still talk to your lawyer, that's borderline extortion, it was the vet that approached you with this option knowing full well how fragile of a state you were in and basically told you that you must agree to whatever they wrote down or you dog would be dead very soon, I'd say that's pretty coercive
Or possibly one of the vets friends who wanted him.
I'm not asking for anymore than just that. I only want to know if he made it. However, we were able to make payments in the amount of 1,000.00 a month and furthermore, we have gladly paid for all of Pax's medical bills in the past. Pax got sick over the weekend and ended up in the ER, who's prices are 50% higher than a regular vet. In my opinion, my situation was very different than your sisters and I would expect you to be a bit bias considering you work at the vet practice that did this and it was in fact your sister who took the dog. However, thank you for your concern but I know that we loved and always will love Pax as much as anyone else. The only difference is that the person who took Pax works at a facility that gives her unlimited resources at a huge discount. In many ways, it's just a case of the haves and the have nots. Not a case of who will love the dog.
People who work at vet's do so because they love animals.
I didn't mean they make a lot of money. I was just saying they don't care about animals and they're just showing up and doing the least amount possible to collect a check.Most vets acquire a lot of debt getting through vet school and although it seems that they must be making tons of money with what they charge it is usually not the case. Tech's make about the same as an entry level office secretary. In fact my 18yr old niece who washes hair at the salon makes $5.00/hr more than me as a tech! we are pulling blood, prepping for surgery, giving vx, performing dentals, pulling meds, intubating, putting in catheters, etc, The $13.00/hr (near NYC mind you) is hardly worth the incredible amounts of urine, poop and "gunk", being exposed to ringworm, mites, parasites, being bitten and scratched and having male junk in your face constantly during the day no matter how hard you try to position yourself to avoid it. Yes, there are some bad vets out there but I would say most people working in the field are not just in it for the money because the money is not good.
I do have to say that this whole situation just seems weird. To not give the owner any closure is strange. And I understand this was a new client but to not even consider a payment plan is odd. I would honestly have an attorney send a letter from their office requesting status of the dog to give the owner closure. Maybe if the request comes from an attorney it will get their attention. I could not imagine not knowing if my dog even survived. I would also need to know that my dog was adjusting ok. it is one thing to take a dog from an owner who is throwing it away but to have the owner who wants the best for their dog and not provide any closure is messed up.
To the OP, did you ask your vet about this practice? We know a LOT about the other vets in the area. Either the vet worked with the other vet or a tech has or the clients leave them and tell us why or we see how they run their business and practice medicine from their charts. We cannot talk badly about other practices but we can answer direct questions (kind of like employee references). I am wondering what your practice knows about the place.
also, what exactly did they say when you asked about paying 1,000/month? Did they give reasoning?