Oh dear poor Baci!! The only thing I can suggest is that one of you gets a great big piece of chicken or beef or something really, super, outrageously yummy, hold it in your fist and let her nibble it while she is being treated by your husband or visa versa. The very second the treatment is over and if she has been a good Baci then let her have the whole piece as her big reward. Obviously to make this easier you will have to take off the cone of shame, which I am assuming you are doing before treating her anyway? If you are treating her with the cone on, don't, take it off her first, it wont be quite so scary that way. And as hard as it is, try to be firm with her at the time. I know its hard, and heart breaking, but she cant be allowed to think that she can growl and nip and then get her own way. Its not nice for her to have to go through this, but she does have to go through it and she needs to learn to accept her humans having to administer treatment to her. Just a touch of tough love, as hard as it is.