Angelbears he does not follow us from room to room, he kind of does his own thing. He is extremely friendly to everyone, tail waging the whole time. He does not go on alert at all, in fact my other dogs bark and sound off at someone at the door and he will raise his head and lay it back down not even moving. He is extremely lazy and only wants to cuddle with anyone that will sit on the floor and just him crawl up in their lap.
I want to thank everyone for advice, I got railroaded by a breeder who I contacted for advice who yelled at me, told me that if I kept him he would turn so mean he could possibly bite my children, that I would have no social life and that I better prepare myself for a law suit. She said I was being dumb and wants me to turn him over to a rescue.
Apparently I'm not good enough for the breed is what I was getting out of it, since she went on and on about having raised over 400 fila. But its funny because even she said he doesn't look fila.
My hubby wants to keep him. My family loves him very much. I think we can give him what he needs, we just have to set strict rules.