I totally agree with you. I'm honestly not sure what changed. Yesterday we had a friend come over and friend was instructed prior to coming to ignore Oscar. He hasn't seen him in probably 9 months but spent a lot of time with him as a pup. Oscar was put in his place and I held him in a stay...I stayed with him while my bf answered the door. Our friend came in without any issues and Oscar just watched him. Once my boyfriend came in the room behind him and then Oscar broke from his place and I gave him a command and he ignored. My bf had to get in between them and Oscar jumped up to nip him and got his wrist barely. After that Oscar was leashed and put back in his place where he stayed for the next two hours. I didn't have to hold him back once on the leash but he stayed put until our friend left. It makes me concerned to have people over or around him now beyond family.Why do u think he's not welcoming non family members? Are u doing anything different with how u are living with/leading Oscar? If he's suddenly feeling the need to protect the house that, in my opinion, is a cause to look at why he feels the need to lead/protect instead of allowing u to lead him. Maybe it's something as simple as getting back to basics and reinforcing rules, boundaries and limitations. Adding more structure. Tightening up the discipline. Carpe Diem
I expect for him to stay in his place until released and once calm I think he should be in a sit to give a friendly greeting or stay in his place if we don't release him or if our guest doesn't want to pet him. I don't expect him to be friendly with everyone...I just want to be confident that he will behave. It's like he's trying to protect us in our house but outside of our house in a public place he gets anxiousWhat are your expectations for Oscar when ppl come over? Carpe Diem
Yea I will only do in person in home training. This cannot get more out of control than it already is. I'm waiting to hear back from some people....I feel like I've done a huge disservice to my dog and I'm not even sure how this has happened. It's a shame because he is an exceptional dog with us and our family.I strongly think this is a situation that requires a trainer/behaviorist to be involved personally. A video is not the same as seeing the behavior in person. If I recall correctly, this has gone from one minor incident and escalated to him not allowing non family members over. To me that says it's time for professional help. In person. Oscar's Mom, my initial consult was $150 and then we worked out a plan based upon that initial visit. I would not shell out $700 without having an initial consult to see if you agree with the methods, etc. I also agree that a trainer may be more helpful than a behaviorist, but not necessarily. It depends on the individual. My behaviorist was also a certified trainer, so I had both.
Thanks bobWe hired one out of Purdue @ 150.00/Hr.Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N910A using Tapatalk
He sounds like he needs more work on place. If you have not started to use corrections like a no and whatever type of correction he respects, then you need to start. Obviously, he doesn't hear you when he's in the zone nor are you strong enough to hold this dog back so you need to either work hard on following through with your commands or crate him. It's much easier and cheaper to crate a dog. The important thing is to stop his brain from escalating. That means correcting, redirecting when he's watching. When he's watching, the bomb is already ticking. My dog is one of those that cannot watch. He must be redirected, corrected or actively doing a command and I'm not one to jump first on using physical corrections, but in this case where the dog is a danger to other people and to himself, then the behavior needs to be shut down immediately and yes I would do the same to my own dog.I totally agree with you. I'm honestly not sure what changed. Yesterday we had a friend come over and friend was instructed prior to coming to ignore Oscar. He hasn't seen him in probably 9 months but spent a lot of time with him as a pup. Oscar was put in his place and I held him in a stay...I stayed with him while my bf answered the door. Our friend came in without any issues and Oscar just watched him. Once my boyfriend came in the room behind him and then Oscar broke from his place and I gave him a command and he ignored. My bf had to get in between them and Oscar jumped up to nip him and got his wrist barely. After that Oscar was leashed and put back in his place where he stayed for the next two hours. I didn't have to hold him back once on the leash but he stayed put until our friend left. It makes me concerned to have people over or around him now beyond family.
He sounds like he needs more work on place. If you have not started to use corrections like a no and whatever type of correction he respects, then you need to start. Obviously, he doesn't hear you when he's in the zone nor are you strong enough to hold this dog back so you need to either work hard on following through with your commands or crate him. It's much easier and cheaper to crate a dog. The important thing is to stop his brain from escalating. That means correcting, redirecting when he's watching. When he's watching, the bomb is already ticking. My dog is one of those that cannot watch. He must be redirected, corrected or actively doing a command and I'm not one to jump first on using physical corrections, but in this case where the dog is a danger to other people and to himself, then the behavior needs to be shut down immediately and yes I would do the same to my own dog.
I was facing Oscar with my side to them and I turned to look...good call. I didn't think about that. When would have been a good time to release or should I expect him to not bolt if I move my gaze. I kept my hand in he position I give him the stay command in..just flat plan facing him.Once your boyfriend came in following behind where were u? Did u take your eyes off of Oscar? I'm assuming so since he got up and made his move. Carpe Diem