Looking for a new home for my boy! :(

[Jessica_2020]

Wow! Thank you to those of you that were not rude and really critical. To the rest of you &^%$ YOU ALL...! You don't know me, and you don't know how I treat my dog, you all make it sound like I am this worthless, cold hearted bitch of a person...well ..., maybe you should take a look in the mirror at how you treat other people. I guess coming here was the wrong thing to do...thanks for all of the help....NOT...

And to the person that doesn't think I should have any contact with whoever gives him away, or have a contract....That sounds to me like I care and I don't want him being bounced around...I feel like I am going to find him the best home possible and I don't trust somebody else to give him away or sell him on CL.

So what do you people think of people that sell animals all the time, like for example...horses...What is the difference between a horse and a dog...I've always loved my horses (I've always got more attached to my horses than dogs) and had a hard time selling them, but it is common practice...You people are ridiculous. I'm trying to be the bigger person and do what is best for my dog. The situation is not going to change, so I'd much rather find him an amazing home that is prepared for the messiness of a big dog. Then keep him where he doesn't get all the attention that he needs.

 

[AKBull]

You have a mentality that I don't think most of us can relate to, where selling horses is common place, and a dog is no different. Like has been said, our dogs are our family. If you can look at your situation from our perspective you might have an idea why people have responded like they did.

 

[chuckorlando]

Jessica I dont think it's proper to rehome horses, cows, cats, frogs, or children. When you sale a horse it's not cause you dont feel like taking care of it. I ould imagine it's a business deal. Same with a puppy breder. I dont have a problem with anyones business long as it aint bad business. Your comparing apples to crab grass. Now if you rehomed your horse because you did'nt feel like building a fence or felt it to hard to move a bail of hay to the pen..... I would absolutly feel you should not own a horse.

Folks here happen to be dog lovers. It upsets them when you simply failed to do your job as a dog owner. It's pretty common knowledge that you either crate train your dog, dog proof your house, or clean up their mess. Some folks dont train at all and I feel as long as that fits your life style, thats cool with me. But if that dont fit, you either train or have trained any dog to do what you need. So it bothers folks that you simply did'nt do anything except likely exagerate the dogs anxiety. And knowing full well for 24 long months that you were not willing to change or change the dog. You then decide ah well let the problems I created, fostered, and formed, let them be someone elses issues.

Your not a dog lover and thats fine. So stick to what you have a desire to care for. Be it horses, plants, or pet rocks.

 

[Murray]

Wow really? Jessica YOU came on here asking for help re-homing your pup after 2 yrs what did you expect ppl would say?? You came onto a forum asking ppl who consider their pups of all ages shapes and sizes as family so to most of us after 2 yrs it is not a question of re-homing them especially for the reason that YOU gave. NO one called you names so settle down. No one called you a bad dog owner.Your above comment only made you look ridiculous. As most of here have said you are asking ppl who consider their pets as family how to and where to re-home a 2yr old dog. I was the one who made a comment on the contract and if you re-read my post I said...""Anyway the point I want to make is this... I can understand that you want to stay in touch with whomever takes him I get that but its the contract part that confuses me. You dont want him now but are willing to take him back if someone else doesn't want him anymore. How much more can you confuse and bounce a dog around? Find him a home and walk away period! You dont want him now and later he will be bigger why when you cant handle him now would you want him later? I am just saying."" I mentioned in my post more then once that I was only sharing my 2 cents. I never called you names so dont tell us to look in the mirror when you come on here and ask us questions or made the statements you do and then when ppl comment bash us. chuckorlando said it quite clear and I quote""
Folks here happen to be dog lovers. It upsets them when you simply failed to do your job as a dog owner. It's pretty common knowledge that you either crate train your dog, dog proof your house, or clean up their mess. Some folks dont train at all and I feel as long as that fits your life style, that's cool with me. But if that dont fit, you either train or have trained any dog to do what you need. So it bothers folks that you simply didn't do anything except likely exaggerate the dogs anxiety. And knowing full well for 24 long months that you were not willing to change or change the dog. You then decide ah well let the problems I created, fostered, and formed, let them be someone elses issues."" After reading your rant and rave above I truly hope that you do find a good home for him and that you let the new ppl clean up your mess and give him a loving home forever. Thinking about purchasing a dog of any breed shape or size should never be impulse you should always do your research about the breed you are considering. It is clear in this case you didnt so now the damage is done and you have to find a new home for him. Next time do your research and pick a dog that best suits your lifestyle and clean home. It is not nice that you come here and post and then trash us all for comments made. Stick to your horses it seems as though they are better suited for you. One more thing you did get part of my post correct ""And to the person that doesn't think I should have any contact with whoever gives him away, or have a contract....That sounds to me like I care and I don't want him being bounced around...I feel like I am going to find him the best home possible and I don't trust somebody else to give him away or sell him on CL."" He shouldn't be bounced around because of your lack of research and care for him. Once the dog is out of your hands what are you gonna do follow him around and make sure he is okay? The person who signs the contract could pick up and move to another country the next day and you will never see him again. So unfortunately because you caused this mess you now have to pay the piper and dont play the sympathy card here by saying we called you names because NO ONE did. We all voiced our concerns and by posting here you were opening that can of worms. What did you expect? We love our pets and treat them as family and drool,goober,mud,dirt all of it is expected from any dog but only more of it from a bigger breed. I had more then once mentioned in my post that I was not trying to upset anyone but clearly skipped that in my posts I only put in my 2 cents as everyone else did in this thread. You asked... we answered period! You are trying to be the bigger person here???? Really???? Then you should have done your research and check into the breed before you got him, and did right by the dog from get go. Sad situation that that dog counted on you for 2 yrs and you are quick to throw in the towel for messiness??? To me it is a ridiculous reason. Doing the right thing??? If you did you wouldnt have had to post here period... Stick to horses. How is it that you have no problem with horse shit but you do dog shit?? My daughter has 3 horses so it is not like I am not familiar with that whole scenario so no reason to tell me I dont know what I am talking about cause I do... I am saying no more on this thread as it makes me furious the reasons and the simple fact you posted and are now mad at those of us who reply and you dont like whats said so you cry "name calling"

 

[shodanusmc]

Jessica, after reading your latest post, I agree with you, you need to find the dog a great home and fast. Contact local rescues and the parent breed club. Contact the person you got him from. No one jumped on your frame. You asked a question, and you did not like the reply's. My kids caused more problems and damage than any dog I have ever owned, and never considered adopting them out. Next time think before you get a Large Breed Mastiff, and don't compare a dog to a Horse, that is, unless your horse lives inside with you.

 

[cwayaustx]

Arkansas? I will drive to give him a forever home. No I don't need a free pup, just don't want to see a good dog go to some asshole on Craigslist, pm me please. I have plenty of couch space as long as he is dog friendly and kid friendly.

 

[Tiger12490]

Were upset because honestly 2 years? And its a mastiff what you expect there not super clean dogs.....i'm a clean freak...seriously....you know what I do clean allot lol but anyways I wish you luck but I also don't thunk you should insist on having contact it will no longer be your dog you gave him up

Tapd on my Skyrocket

 

[Mamie2shoes]

Ok, I understand your frustration, but get a rug and a tub of wipes. This dog doesn't need to be an outside or garage dog, it is a sit beside you dog. And to not have time is to not be home. As I wander about my house cooking dinner, washing laundry, washing kids, or any other chore my EM is there happily sitting beside me. She is practically my shadow, but in a loving way. I am sorry you no longer desire to keep him, but if you are giving him away to better his life, you have no right to expect the new home to keep in contact with you. And why should you restrict it to just someone nearby??? Try contacting a rescue again, and then try again, Milo deserves the better than 1 hour a day and a garage alone. Please, next time, get a cat

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good for you, hopefully Milo will be good road trip company

 

[Mamie2shoes]

good for you, hopefully Milo will be good road trip company

 

[musicdeb]

Thank you,cwayaustx! Hopefully Jessica will see your post because she's pretty upset about the replies to her post.

 

[stephanieb]

Thank you,cwayaustx! Hopefully Jessica will see your post because she's pretty upset about the replies to her post.

Can you blame her? She made a mistake and came here looking for help from people that love the breed. She could have just posted the dog on CL or continued on as things were, but she tried to do the right thing and we slammed her. I'm not saying I could give away either of my babies, but people please. The lady asked for help. Have none of you ever made a choice that in the end turned out to be wrong for you and looked for ways to make it right? I can guarantee you she will never make this mistake again, and I can also pretty much guarantee you that the dog will be better off in the next home. Can we please leave it at that and let this thread die?

 

[Dogue]

West Coast Mastiff Rescue, Akita Rescue, Ace of Hearts, or Canine Rescue Coalition. You should make a donation after they take in your EM. They will ensure he goes to a good home. They will not judge you and want the best for your dog. These are really good rescues that foster molossers. Do not go through Gentle Giants; it's a warehouse for dogs. Do research if you don't go through the ones I reccomended which are really good. There's a lot of wack jobs out there that hoard dogs under the guise as a rescue.

 

[Marrowshard]

I agree with all the other replies. Crate train, and keep him close to you. Our last Cane Corso lived 12 years and ruined our Oak Wood Floors with his nails. He did not scratch, he gouged he was so strong. When he passed away, we were going to spend thousdands refinishing the wood, but decided to get a new Cane Corso Puppy. My wife and I now say that our floors are rustic. I wish you the best of luck finding a great home for him, but I hope others that may read this, do their research before they get any marge breed type mastiff.

Ha! I keep telling my husband that. When we bought our place we put in brand-new hardwood floors but already had two (clawed) cats and we planned on having a kid at some point and I had to sit him down and explain ... look honey, it's never going to be perfect, the best I can do is "swept". I swear I told him just what you say: they're "rustic". The distressed look is still in, right? Right?

~Marrow

 

[Jessica_2020]

West Coast Mastiff Rescue, Akita Rescue, Ace of Hearts, or Canine Rescue Coalition. You should make a donation after they take in your EM. They will ensure he goes to a good home. They will not judge you and want the best for your dog. These are really good rescues that foster molossers. Do not go through Gentle Giants; it's a warehouse for dogs. Do research if you don't go through the ones I reccomended which are really good. There's a lot of wack jobs out there that hoard dogs under the guise as a rescue.

Thank you, I will look into those.

 

[bullmastiff mom]

Hi Jessica - Gentle Giant Rescue is located right in Los Angeles. It is run by Burt Ward and his wife - they rescue all types of giant breeds. Try giving them a call.

 

[Dogue]

West Coast Mastiff Rescue, Akita Rescue, Ace of Hearts, or Canine Rescue Coalition. You should make a donation after they take in your EM. They will ensure he goes to a good home. They will not judge you and want the best for your dog. These are really good rescues that foster molossers. Do not go through Gentle Giants; it's a warehouse for dogs. Do research if you don't go through the ones I reccomended which are really good. There's a lot of wack jobs out there that hoard dogs under the guise as a rescue.

I had to re-write my previous post two times due to how angry I was before I posted it. I want everyone to know that I wasn't referring to anyone on this thread as judgmental in my previous post. Just want the dog to find a good rescue. ray: It's a shame this happens so often. People should take a test if they want a molosser and wait a year.

 

[musicdeb]

Totally agree Stephanie! Enough with the brow beating.

 

[shodanusmc]

Ha! I keep telling my husband that. When we bought our place we put in brand-new hardwood floors but already had two (clawed) cats and we planned on having a kid at some point and I had to sit him down and explain ... look honey, it's never going to be perfect, the best I can do is "swept". I swear I told him just what you say: they're "rustic". The distressed look is still in, right? Right?

~Marrow

You pay a lot more to get the distressed list. It does not bother me at all. No one has ever said a word. My Corso gets his nails cut regularly, but it makes no difference. When he stretches, the wood gets a work out. Sort of like getting that first little paint chip on a new car. You get over it. Now do not even get me going on the inside of my car after an all day ride with a mastiff. I love them

 

[cwayaustx]

Sorry I thought I read you were in Arkansas for some reason..

 

[mia]

Can you not call the breeder you got the dog from? Usually there is a contract in place. As a rescuer I don't allow the former owner to see the dog post adoption, not fair to the dog or the new owner. If you really can't stand the mess for the moment hire a house cleaner.