Jayne,
I personally have never thus far encountered a 'stereo dog owner' in the UK, and although I no longer keep my dogs in England, when I am there for the six months plus each year I spend time with my dogs' breeders, and many friends with various kinds of mastiffs, staffordshire terriers and rotties, The fiercest dogs I've come across have been Jack Russells, and one very bolshy portuguese water dog.
However, I am sure that your experiences are just as 'true', and I'll just consider myself fortunate. As the breeding of vicious and aggressive 'Bad Azz' dogs is quite prevalent here in the US, I am perfectly willing to believe it is an increasing problem in England, as well. The issue as I see it is that the 'brand' of people who want to cultivate 'i am going to rip your throat out' attitudes and behaviours on the part of their dogs, are not going to be reading this forum and could care less about "Acceptable Behaviour in Mastiff Breeds' blogs on training sites.
Next, if you have slogged through this entire thread, with or without Advil, you should have observed that virtually no one who has posted said that it was perfectly all right for their dogs to lunge and snap at people and/or behave with an 'I'm going to rip your throat out' attitude. However, Ruthcatrin beat me to the punch in saying STANDARDS (NOT STEROTYPES) for the temperament of different breeds do vary in terms of how sociable and tolerant of strangers they can and should be. I spent a long while listing these diverse breed temperament expectations and requirements on page 2 or 3. these standards were not dreamed by the Bad Azz brands of people but established by the governing bodies of the breeds. I don't think that through six pages of discussion a single person did not agree dogs should be well trained and in control.
What we all have all baulked at, (and were frankly alarmed by) was the assertion:
With our breeds you can have the super friendly, easy going, well adjusted, pleasure to own dog. Our dogs can be like Labrador and goldens, it just takes a ton more work and a much more proactive approach on our part.
. This is simply not true, and such 'Twinkie Zone' thinking can influence innocent, inexperienced dog owners who would be completely out of their depth with, say, a Fila, getting one because they like how they look, and are convinced that, of course, it can trained to act like a happy lab. This is the kind of scenario that can end in tragedy.
Also, I've expressed my view of the training concepts and methods described on the website, so I'll not repeat myself here